If people treated you like an option, leave them like a choice...

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 Have you ever felt like you were just an option to someone? Maybe you've been in a relationship or friendship where the other person didn't seem to value your time or your feelings. It can be a painful and frustrating experience, but the truth is that you don't have to put up with it. If people are treating you like an option, it's time to leave them like a choice.


It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that we have to accept whatever treatment we're given, especially if we care about the other person. But the reality is that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and if someone isn't giving you that, then it's time to walk away.


Leaving someone who treats you like an option can be difficult, but it's also empowering. You're taking control of your life and refusing to settle for less than you deserve. It can be scary to let go of someone who you've grown attached to, but remember that there are people out there who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.


So how do you leave someone like a choice? First, you need to set boundaries. Let the other person know that you won't tolerate being treated like an option. Be clear about your expectations and communicate your needs. If they're not willing to meet you halfway, then it's time to move on.


Secondly, focus on yourself. Remember that you're worthy of love and respect, and don't let anyone make you feel otherwise. Take care of yourself and do things that make you happy. Surround yourself with people who lift you up and support you.


Finally, be patient. Healing takes time, and it's important to give yourself space to process your feelings. But remember that leaving someone who treats you like an option is ultimately a positive step towards a healthier and happier future.


If people are treating you like an option, it's time to leave them like a choice. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and there are people out there who will give you that. By setting boundaries, focusing on yourself, and being patient, you can move on from toxic relationships and build a life filled with love and positivity. Don't settle for less than you deserve - you're worth it!






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