You know what hurts the most... Being available for someone at their best and worst and then being alone when it's their turn 💔

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 You know what hurts the most... Being available for someone at their best and worst and then being alone when it's their turn 💔


Love and relationships can be incredibly rewarding and fulfilling experiences, but they can also be filled with heartbreak and disappointment. One of the most painful experiences anyone can go through is feeling like you're there for someone through thick and thin, only to be left behind when they no longer need you.


It's a feeling that's hard to put into words. You invest so much time, energy, and emotion into a relationship, and when it ends, it can leave you feeling hollow and alone. You might wonder what you did wrong, or why the other person didn't value your commitment and loyalty.


The truth is, it's not about you. It's about the other person and their own journey. Sometimes people need support and love to get through a tough time, but when they come out the other side, they may find that they no longer need you in the same way. It's not necessarily a reflection of your worth or your value as a person, but it can still hurt like hell.


So, what can you do when you find yourself in this situation? The first step is to acknowledge your feelings and allow yourself to grieve. It's okay to feel sad and hurt, and it's important to give yourself the time and space you need to heal.


Next, try to focus on the positive aspects of the relationship. Remember the good times you shared and the ways in which you helped and supported each other. While the ending may be painful, it doesn't negate the value and importance of the connection you shared.


Finally, look to the future with hope and optimism. Remember that you are strong and resilient, and that you have the capacity to love and be loved in return. Don't let one disappointment define your future or your self-worth.


Being available for someone at their best and worst is a noble and selfless act, but it's important to remember that you deserve that same level of commitment and loyalty in return. If someone can't give you that, then it's time to move on and find someone who can.


In the end, it's the experiences we have and the people we meet that shape us into who we are. The pain of being left behind may never truly go away, but it can serve as a reminder of the strength and resilience that lies within us. So keep your head up, keep your heart open, and remember that you are never truly alone.






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